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‎Psummer of Psalms III: Psalm 12

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 ==Psummer of Psalms III: Psalm 12==
-A man is on an airplane flight from El Paso to Dallas, and he opens his bag of complimentary peanuts that come with every flight.  As soon as he does this, he hears a voice coming from the bag, and the voice says, "Hey man, you're looking great today!"  The man looks around, but no one else seems to notice, and not wanting to be rude, he says to the voice, "Thank you."  The peanuts reply, "Also, I really love your outfit!"
+A man is on an airplane flight from El Paso to Dallas, and he opens a bag of complimentary peanuts that come with every flight.  Immediately, he hears a voice coming from the bag which says, "Hey man, you're looking great today!"  The man looks around, but no one else seems to notice. Not wanting to be rude, he says "Thank you."  The peanuts reply, "Also, I really love your outfit!"
-"That's...uh...nice of you to notice," says the man.  Next, the bag of peanuts tells him, "You are one of the coolest guys I have ever met!"  At this, the man is quite flattered.  He waves down the flight attendant and tells her, "Ma'am, these peanuts are really nice and thoughtful!" The flight attendant replies, "Well, they should be.  After all, they *are* complimentary."
+"That's...uh...nice of you," says the man.  Next, the bag of peanuts tells him, "You are one of the coolest guys I have ever met!"  At this, the man is quite flattered.  He waves down the flight attendant and tells her, "Ma'am, these peanuts are really nice and thoughtful!" The flight attendant replies, "Well, they should be.  After all, they *are* complimentary."
-Psalm 12 is about flattery, boasting, and other types of deceitful or reckless speech.  There's an old saying that most of us grew up with:  "Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can never harm me."  Of course, the mere existence of that rhyme, the fact that children need to hear and say things like this to comfort and console themselves, hints at the fact that words really do have the power to wound us to the core, to destroy relationships and reputations alike.
+Psalm 12 is about flattery, boasting, and other types of deceitful or reckless speech.  There's an old saying that most of us grew up with:  "Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can never harm me."  Of course, the mere existence of that rhyme, the fact that children need words like this to comfort and console themselves, hints at the fact that words really do have the power to wound us deeply, to destroy relationships and reputations alike.
-Psalm 12 says in the instructions at the beginning that it is a "Psalm of David" written to the leader (or the chief musician) to be accompanied by the Sheminith, which is probably an eight-stringed harp.  A "Psalm of David" could mean that it was written by the famous King David himself, or by someone else "in the style of" King David.  Whoever wrote this psalm, though, was clearly having a bad day. Or a bad year, or a bad decade.  There are no flowery, poetic words addressing God, just the simple and heartfelt cry: "Help, O Lord."  If you're ever looking for a good way to start a prayer on a bad day, that will do.
+Psalm 12 says in the instructions at the beginning that it is a "Psalm of David" written to the leader (or the chief musician) to be accompanied by the Sheminith, which is probably an eight-stringed harp.  A "Psalm of David" could mean that it was written by the famous King David himself, or by someone else "in the style of" King David.  Whoever wrote this psalm was clearly having a bad day. Or a bad year, or a bad decade.  There are no flowery, poetic words addressing God, just a simple and heartfelt cry: "Help, O Lord."  If you need a good way to start a prayer on a bad day, that will do.
 "Help, O Lord, for there is no longer anyone who is godly; the faithful have disappeared from humankind."
-That part may sound like an exaggeration, but it's also a reminder to us that when we feel like the whole world has gone to hell in a hand-basket, that things have never been so bad as they are today...well, people have felt that way in just about every generation.  This Psalm was written at least 3,000 years ago.  Remembering that may not improve the situation much, but it puts things in a larger perspective and remind us we are not alone.
+That part may sound like an exaggeration, but it's also a reminder that when you feel like the world has gone to hell in a hand-basket, that things have never been so bad as they are today...well, you're not alone. This Psalm was written about 3,000 years ago.  Remembering this may not improve your situation, but it puts things in a larger perspective.
 Verse two:  "They (that is, everyone) utter lies to each other; with flattering lips and a double heart they speak."
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 Basically, four different kinds of destructive speech that should be cut off:
-.  Flattering lips. Think of how you feel when someone praises you, compliments you.  Good, right?  And then how do you feel when you find out later that none of those words were true, that they were only an attempt to gain something from you.  This is probably the most innocuous kind of deceitful speech.  Sometimes we do this without thinking about it or realizing what we're doing.  You might even flatter someone simply because you want them to like you--where's the harm in that?  The harm is in the deception:  Flattery pretends to say "I love you" but actually means "I love me."  The scriptures teach us that true love, true kindness, true generosity is never self-seeking, but rather self-sacrificing.  The antidote to flattery is not to stop complimenting other people, not to be brutally honest or rude, but resolve to mean (and to believe) your compliments, and then to stand by them in the presence of others.  Make your two faces, your two hearts into one, but always choose the kinder one.
+.  Flattering lips. Think of how you feel when someone praises you, compliments you.  Good, right?  And then how do you feel when you find out later that none of those words were true, that they were only an attempt to gain something from you.  This is the most innocuous kind of deceitful speech.  We do this without thinking about it or realizing what we're doing.  You might even flatter someone simply because you want them to like you--where's the harm in that?  The harm is in the deception:  Flattery pretends to say "I love you" but actually says "I love me."  The scriptures teach that true love, true kindness, true generosity is never self-seeking, but rather self-sacrificing.  The antidote to flattery is not to stop complimenting people, not to be brutally honest or rude, but resolve to mean (and to believe) your compliments, and then stand by them in the presence of others.  Make your two faces, your two hearts into one, but always choose the kinder one.
-. The tongue that makes great boasts.  If flattery is complimenting another person when you don't mean it, boasting is complimenting yourself when there's no need for it, when it doesn't build up or help the people around you. Here's a litmus test for speaking about yourself:  Does what I'm about to say benefit me, primarily, or the people I'm speaking to?  I'm not advocating false humility or selling yourself short.  If you're in a job interview, speaking confidently about what you have done and what you can do is helpful to the person interviewing you.  If someone is having a heart attack, saying "I'm a doctor" is not boastful, it's critically helpful.  But saying "I'm a pretty big deal" when the purpose is to to make yourself feel good, or superior, or to make someone else feel small--that's the tongue the Psalmist (and pretty much everyone) would rather have cut off.
+. The tongue that makes great boasts.  If flattery is complimenting another person when you don't mean it, boasting is complimenting yourself when there's no need for it, when it doesn't build up or help another person. Here's a litmus test:  Does what I'm about to say benefit me, primarily, or the people I'm speaking to?  I'm not advocating false humility or selling yourself short.  If you're in a job interview, speaking confidently about what you have done and what you can do is helpful to the person interviewing you.  If someone is having a heart attack, saying "I'm a doctor" is not boastful, it's critically helpful.  But saying "I'm a pretty big deal" when the purpose is to to make yourself feel good, or to make someone else feel small--that's the tongue the Psalmist (and pretty much everyone) would rather have cut off.
-. Those who say, "With our tongues we will prevail."  Let me confess: I am so guilty of this one.  There's not much difference between a person with strong muscles who punches you in the face in order to get his way, and a person who uses words to punch you in the face and get his way. I grew up in a family of six very smart people, and I learned early on how to argue effectively.  I often use that skill to my advantage.  I have considered that preaching a sermon every Sunday where I encourage everyone (and myself) to be nice, might be my eternal penance for the ways I have used my words the other six days of the week. In any case, the litmus test is the same:  Am I using my words to advance myself (so that I win the argument and you lose) or am I using my words to help both of of us win, or to help you win, especially in cases where I don't really need to (as much as I like to).
+. Those who say, "With our tongues we will prevail."  Let me confess: I am so guilty of this one.  There's not much difference between a person with strong muscles who punches you in the face in order to get his way, and a person who uses words to punch you in the face and get his way. I grew up in a family of six very smart people, and I learned early on how to argue effectively.  I often use that skill to my advantage.  I have considered that preaching a sermon every Sunday where I encourage everyone (and myself) to be nice, might be my eternal penance for the ways I use my words the other six days of the week. In any case, the litmus test is the same:  Am I using my words to advance myself (so that I win the argument and you lose) or am I using my words to help both of of us win, or to help you win, in cases where I don't really need to (even though I *like* to).
-. Those who say, "Our lips are our own—who is our master?"  This is potentially the most destructive of all kinds of speech--unrestrained words from those who don't consider (or don't care) about the impact of their words on others.    We have an expression for this kind of person--we say he or she has "no filter."  Some people take that as a badge of honor: "I'm just being honest" or "It's a free country, I can say what I want."  I believe passionately, as an American, in free speech. But just because you have a right to do something doesn't mean it's wise, or good, or helpful.  As an American I am free.  But as a Christian, I am not free.  I have a master, and it's the God who tells me to love my neighbor as much as I love myself--with my thoughts, my actions, and my words.
+. Those who say, "Our lips are our own—who is our master?"  This is the most destructive of all kinds of speech--unrestrained words from those who don't consider (or don't care) about the impact of their words on others.    We have an expression for this kind of person--we say he or she has "no filter."  Some people take that as a badge of honor: "I'm just being honest" or "It's a free country, I can say what I want."  I believe passionately, as an American, in free speech. But just because you have a right to do something doesn't mean it's wise, or good, or helpful.  As an American I am free.  But as a Christian, I am not free.  I have a master: It's the God who tells me to love my neighbor as much as I love myself--with my thoughts, my actions, and my words.
 Verse five is God's response:  "Because the poor are despoiled, because the needy groan, I will now rise up,” says the Lord; “I will place them in the safety for which they long.”
-The poor and the needy--in Hebrew: עֲנִיִּים֮ (aniyim) and אֶבְי֫וֹנִ֥ים (ebyonim) here refer not so much to financial poverty, but those who are on the wrong side of destructive speech--those who, like the Psalmist, have been wounded by words.  This is an important thing to remember:  When you use your words destructively, God is automatically on the side of the other person.  You may win your argument, but you lose in the sight of God.
+The poor and the needy--in Hebrew: עֲנִיִּים֮ (aniyim) and אֶבְי֫וֹנִ֥ים (ebyonim) here refer not so much to financial poverty, but those who are on the wrong side of destructive speech--those who have been wounded by words.  This is important to remember:  When you use words destructively, God is automatically on the side of the other person.  You may win your argument, but you lose in the sight of God.
 Destructive words are empty and worthless, but by contrast the promises of God are (verse 6) "pure, silver refined" and "purified seven times."  In other words, valuable, reliable, and true.
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 The next verse (7) seems like the perfect and typical ending for a psalm:  "You, O Lord, will protect us; you will guard us from this generation forever."  But that's not where the psalm ends.  Instead, verse 8 ends right where things began: "On every side the wicked prowl, as vileness is exalted among humankind."
-This is a reminder that even when you do what's right, even when your words are kind and uplifting, we still live in a broken, imperfect world, where self-interest and self-love usually prevail.  Given that fact, why should we choose to be different?   Let me conclude with an illustration.  I've shared this before, but one more time won't hurt.
+This is a reminder that even when you do what's right, even when your words are kind and uplifting, we still live in a broken, imperfect world, where self-interest and self-love usually prevail.  Given that fact, why should we choose to be different?
-A man was praying one day, and asked the Lord to explain to him the difference between heaven and hell. The Lord said to the man, "Come, and I will show you hell." Together, they entered a room where a group of people sat around a giant, mouth-watering plate of food. Everyone was famished, desperate and starving. Each held a fork that reached the plate, but all of the forks had handles so much longer than their arms that none of the forks could be used to get the food into their mouths. The suffering was terrible. After awhile, the Lord said to the man, "Come, now I will show you heaven." Together, they entered another room. It was almost identical to the first room - the same plate of food, the same long-handled forks, but a different group of people. Here, everyone was happy and well-fed.
+Let me conclude with an illustration.  I've shared this before, but one more time won't hurt.
 "I don't understand," said the man. "Why are they so happy here when they were so miserable in the other room...and everything is pretty much the same?"
 The Lord smiled and said, "Here they use their forks to feed each other."

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 The next verse (7) seems like the perfect and typical ending for a psalm:  "You, O Lord, will protect us; you will guard us from this generation forever."  But that's not where the psalm ends.  Instead, verse 8 ends right where things began: "On every side the wicked prowl, as vileness is exalted among humankind."
-This is a reminder that even when you do what's right, even when your words are kind and uplifting, we still live in a broken, imperfect world, where self-interest and self-love usually prevail.  Given that fact, I want to conclude today with an illustration.  I have shared this with you many times, but one more time won't hurt.
+This is a reminder that even when you do what's right, even when your words are kind and uplifting, we still live in a broken, imperfect world, where self-interest and self-love usually prevail.  Given that fact, why should we choose to be different?   Let me conclude with an illustration.  I've shared this before, but one more time won't hurt.
-It's a story about a man who
+A man was praying one day, and asked the Lord to explain to him the difference between heaven and hell. The Lord said to the man, "Come, and I will show you hell." Together, they entered a room where a group of people sat around a giant, mouth-watering plate of food. Everyone was famished, desperate and starving. Each held a fork that reached the plate, but all of the forks had handles so much longer than their arms that none of the forks could be used to get the food into their mouths. The suffering was terrible. After awhile, the Lord said to the man, "Come, now I will show you heaven." Together, they entered another room. It was almost identical to the first room - the same plate of food, the same long-handled forks, but a different group of people. Here, everyone was happy and well-fed.

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	4. Those who say, "Our lips are our own—who is our master?" This is potentially the most destructive of all kinds of speech--unrestrained words from those who don't consider (or don't care) about the impact of their words on others. We have an expression for this kind of person--we say he or she has "no filter." Some people take that as a badge of honor: "I'm just being honest" or "It's a free country, I can say what I want." I believe passionately, as an American, in free speech. But just because you have a right to do something doesn't mean it's wise, or good, or helpful. As an American I am free. But as a Christian, I am not free. I have a master, and it's the God who tells me to love my neighbor as much as I love myself--with my thoughts, my actions, and my words.		4. Those who say, "Our lips are our own—who is our master?" This is potentially the most destructive of all kinds of speech--unrestrained words from those who don't consider (or don't care) about the impact of their words on others. We have an expression for this kind of person--we say he or she has "no filter." Some people take that as a badge of honor: "I'm just being honest" or "It's a free country, I can say what I want." I believe passionately, as an American, in free speech. But just because you have a right to do something doesn't mean it's wise, or good, or helpful. As an American I am free. But as a Christian, I am not free. I have a master, and it's the God who tells me to love my neighbor as much as I love myself--with my thoughts, my actions, and my words.
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		+	Verse five is God's response: "Because the poor are despoiled, because the needy groan, I will now rise up,” says the Lord; “I will place them in the safety for which they long.”
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		+	The poor and the needy--in Hebrew: עֲנִיִּים֮ (aniyim) and אֶבְי֫וֹנִ֥ים (ebyonim) here refer not so much to financial poverty, but those who are on the wrong side of destructive speech--those who, like the Psalmist, have been wounded by words. This is an important thing to remember: When you use your words destructively, God is automatically on the side of the other person. You may win your argument, but you lose in the sight of God.
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		+	Destructive words are empty and worthless, but by contrast the promises of God are (verse 6) "pure, silver refined" and "purified seven times." In other words, valuable, reliable, and true.
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		+	The next verse (7) seems like the perfect and typical ending for a psalm: "You, O Lord, will protect us; you will guard us from this generation forever." But that's not where the psalm ends. Instead, verse 8 ends right where things began: "On every side the wicked prowl, as vileness is exalted among humankind."
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		+	This is a reminder that even when you do what's right, even when your words are kind and uplifting, we still live in a broken, imperfect world, where self-interest and self-love usually prevail. Given that fact, I want to conclude today with an illustration. I have shared this with you many times, but one more time won't hurt.
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		+	It's a story about a man who

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 ==Psummer of Psalms III: Psalm 12==
-A Prayer for help in evil times.
+"That's...uh...nice of you to notice," says the man.  Next, the bag of peanuts tells him, "You are one of the coolest guys I have ever met!"  At this, the man is quite flattered.  He waves down the flight attendant and tells her, "Ma'am, these peanuts are really nice and thoughtful!" The flight attendant replies, "Well, they should be.  After all, they *are* complimentary."
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-A man is on an Southwest airplane flight from El Paso to Dallas, and he opens the bag of peanuts that the flight attendant recently handed out to all the passengers.  As soon as the bag is opened, he hears a voice coming from what sounds like the peanuts, and the voice says to him, "Hey man, you're looking great today!"  The man looks around, but no one else seems to notice, and not wanting to be rude, he says to the voice, "Thank you."
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-The peanuts reply, "Also, I really love your outfit!"
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 "That's...uh...nice of you to notice," says the man.
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-Next, the bag of peanuts tell him, "You are one of the coolest guys I have ever met!"
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 At this, the man is quite flattered.  He waves down the flight attendant and tells her, "Ma'am, these peanuts are really nice and thoughtful!"
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 The flight attendant replies, "Well, they should be.  After all, they *are* complimentary."
 Psalm 12 is about flattery, boasting, and other types of deceitful or reckless speech.  There's an old saying that most of us grew up with:  "Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can never harm me."  Of course, the mere existence of that rhyme, the fact that children need to hear and say things like this to comfort and console themselves, hints at the fact that words really do have the power to wound us to the core, to destroy relationships and reputations alike.
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 "Help, O Lord, for there is no longer anyone who is godly; the faithful have disappeared from humankind."
-That part may sound like an exaggeration, but it's a pretty common one.  It's also a reminder to us that when we feel like the whole world has gone to hell in a hand-basket, that things couldn't possibly be worse, that things have never been so bad as they are today...that people have felt that way in just about every generation.  This Psalm was written at least 3,000 years ago.  Remembering that may not improve the situation much, but it may help our perspective some, and at least we know we're not alone.
+That part may sound like an exaggeration, but it's also a reminder to us that when we feel like the whole world has gone to hell in a hand-basket, that things have never been so bad as they are today...well, people have felt that way in just about every generation.  This Psalm was written at least 3,000 years ago.  Remembering that may not improve the situation much, but it puts things in a larger perspective and remind us we are not alone.
 Verse two:  "They (that is, everyone) utter lies to each other; with flattering lips and a double heart they speak."
-The word translated as "lies" in Hebrew is שָׁוְא (shawv) which literally means "emptiness" or words with no value, no substance.  The phrase "double heart" is kind of like our modern expression "two-faced."  People who say one thing in front of you, and quite another thing when you aren't around.
+The word translated as "lies" in Hebrew is שָׁוְא (shav) which literally means "emptiness" or words with no substance.  The phrase "double heart" is like our modern expression "two-faced."  People who say one thing in front of you, and quite another thing when you aren't around.
-If verses one and two spell out the problem, verses three and four are the heart of the psalmists request to God: "May the Lord cut off all flattering lips, the tongue that makes great boasts, those who say, “With our tongues we will prevail; our lips are our own—who is our master?"
+Verses one and two spell out the problem, while verses three and four are the psalmist's request to God: "May the Lord cut off all flattering lips, the tongue that makes great boasts, those who say, “With our tongues we will prevail; our lips are our own—who is our master?"
-Basically, that four different kinds of destructive speech would be cut off:
+Basically, four different kinds of destructive speech that should be cut off:
-.  Flattering lips.  This is pretty self explanatory.  Think of how you feel when someone praises you, compliments you.  Good, right?  And then how do you feel when you find out later on that none of those words were really meant, that they were only an attempt to gain something from you.  This is, on some level, the most innocuous kind of deceitful speech.  Sometimes we do this without really thinking about it or realizing what we're doing.  You might even flatter someone simply because you want them to like you--where's the harm in that, right?  The harm is in the deception:  Flattery pretends to say "I love you" but actually means "I love me."  The scriptures teach us that true love, true kindness, true generosity is never self-seeking, but rather self-sacrificing.  I think the antidote to flattery is not to stop complimenting other people, not to be brutally honest or rude, but resolve to mean (and to believe) your compliments, and then to stand by them in the presence of others.  Make your two faces, your two hearts into one, but always choose the kinder one.
+.  Flattering lips. Think of how you feel when someone praises you, compliments you.  Good, right?  And then how do you feel when you find out later that none of those words were true, that they were only an attempt to gain something from you.  This is probably the most innocuous kind of deceitful speech.  Sometimes we do this without thinking about it or realizing what we're doing.  You might even flatter someone simply because you want them to like you--where's the harm in that?  The harm is in the deception:  Flattery pretends to say "I love you" but actually means "I love me."  The scriptures teach us that true love, true kindness, true generosity is never self-seeking, but rather self-sacrificing.  The antidote to flattery is not to stop complimenting other people, not to be brutally honest or rude, but resolve to mean (and to believe) your compliments, and then to stand by them in the presence of others.  Make your two faces, your two hearts into one, but always choose the kinder one.
-. The tongue that makes great boasts.  If flattery is complimenting another person when you don't mean it, boasting is complimenting yourself when there's no need for it, when it doesn't build up or help the people around you. Here's a litmus test for speaking about yourself:  Does what I'm about to say benefit me, primarily, or the people I'm speaking to?  I'm not advocating for selling yourself short, or false humility.  If you're in a job interview, speaking confidently about what you have done and what you can do is helpful to the person interviewing you.  If someone is having a heart attack, saying "I'm a doctor" is not boastful, it's critically helpful.  But saying something to the effect of "I'm a pretty big deal" when the purpose is to to make yourself feel good, or superior, or to make someone else feel small--that's the tongue the Psalmist (and pretty much everyone) would rather have cut off.
+. The tongue that makes great boasts.  If flattery is complimenting another person when you don't mean it, boasting is complimenting yourself when there's no need for it, when it doesn't build up or help the people around you. Here's a litmus test for speaking about yourself:  Does what I'm about to say benefit me, primarily, or the people I'm speaking to?  I'm not advocating false humility or selling yourself short.  If you're in a job interview, speaking confidently about what you have done and what you can do is helpful to the person interviewing you.  If someone is having a heart attack, saying "I'm a doctor" is not boastful, it's critically helpful.  But saying "I'm a pretty big deal" when the purpose is to to make yourself feel good, or superior, or to make someone else feel small--that's the tongue the Psalmist (and pretty much everyone) would rather have cut off.
-. Those who say, "With our tongues we will prevail."  Let me confess: I am so guilty of this one.  At the end of the day, there's not much difference between a person with strong muscles who punches you in the face in order to get his way, and a person who uses the power of words to punch you in the face and get his way. I grew up in a family of six very smart people, and I learned early on how to argue effectively.  I often use that skill to my advantage.  I have considered the fact that preaching a sermon every Sunday where I encourage everyone (and myself) to be nice, might be my eternal penance for the ways I have used my words the other six days of the week. In any case, the litmus test is the same:  Am I using my words to advance myself (so that I win the argument and you lose) or am I using my words to help both of of us win, or to help you win, especially in cases where I don't really need to (as much as I like to).
+. Those who say, "With our tongues we will prevail."  Let me confess: I am so guilty of this one.  There's not much difference between a person with strong muscles who punches you in the face in order to get his way, and a person who uses words to punch you in the face and get his way. I grew up in a family of six very smart people, and I learned early on how to argue effectively.  I often use that skill to my advantage.  I have considered that preaching a sermon every Sunday where I encourage everyone (and myself) to be nice, might be my eternal penance for the ways I have used my words the other six days of the week. In any case, the litmus test is the same:  Am I using my words to advance myself (so that I win the argument and you lose) or am I using my words to help both of of us win, or to help you win, especially in cases where I don't really need to (as much as I like to).
-. Those who say, "Our lips are our own—who is our master?"  This is potentially the most destructive of all kinds of speech--unrestrained words from those who don't consider (or don't care) about the impact of their words on others.  The litmus test doesn't even work here, because people who have gotten to this point generally don't welcome litmus tests.  We have an expression for this kind of person--we say he (or she) has "no filter."  And some people take that as a badge of honor: "I'm just being honest" or "It's a free country, I can say what I want."  While I do believe passionately, as an American, in free speech and I will always defend the right of people to say all sorts of crazy and hateful things, just because you have a right to do something doesn't mean it's wise, or good, or helpful.  As an American I am free.  But as a Christian, I am not free.  I have a master, and it's the God who tells me to love my neighbor as much as I love myself--with my thoughts, my actions, and my words.
+. Those who say, "Our lips are our own—who is our master?"  This is potentially the most destructive of all kinds of speech--unrestrained words from those who don't consider (or don't care) about the impact of their words on others.    We have an expression for this kind of person--we say he or she has "no filter."  Some people take that as a badge of honor: "I'm just being honest" or "It's a free country, I can say what I want."  I believe passionately, as an American, in free speech. But just because you have a right to do something doesn't mean it's wise, or good, or helpful.  As an American I am free.  But as a Christian, I am not free.  I have a master, and it's the God who tells me to love my neighbor as much as I love myself--with my thoughts, my actions, and my words.

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	2. The tongue that makes great boasts. If flattery is complimenting another person when you don't mean it, boasting is complimenting yourself when there's no need for it, when it doesn't build up or help the people around you. Here's a litmus test for speaking about yourself: Does what I'm about to say benefit me, primarily, or the people I'm speaking to? I'm not advocating for selling yourself short, or false humility. If you're in a job interview, speaking confidently about what you have done and what you can do is helpful to the person interviewing you. If someone is having a heart attack, saying "I'm a doctor" is not boastful, it's critically helpful. But saying something to the effect of "I'm a pretty big deal" when the purpose is to to make yourself feel good, or superior, or to make someone else feel small--that's the tongue the Psalmist (and pretty much everyone) would rather have cut off.		2. The tongue that makes great boasts. If flattery is complimenting another person when you don't mean it, boasting is complimenting yourself when there's no need for it, when it doesn't build up or help the people around you. Here's a litmus test for speaking about yourself: Does what I'm about to say benefit me, primarily, or the people I'm speaking to? I'm not advocating for selling yourself short, or false humility. If you're in a job interview, speaking confidently about what you have done and what you can do is helpful to the person interviewing you. If someone is having a heart attack, saying "I'm a doctor" is not boastful, it's critically helpful. But saying something to the effect of "I'm a pretty big deal" when the purpose is to to make yourself feel good, or superior, or to make someone else feel small--that's the tongue the Psalmist (and pretty much everyone) would rather have cut off.

−	3. Those who say, "With our tongues we will prevail." Let me confess: I am so guilty of this one.	+	3. Those who say, "With our tongues we will prevail." Let me confess: I am so guilty of this one. At the end of the day, there's not much difference between a person with strong muscles who punches you in the face in order to get his way, and a person who uses the power of words to punch you in the face and get his way. I grew up in a family of six very smart people, and I learned early on how to argue effectively. I often use that skill to my advantage. I have considered the fact that preaching a sermon every Sunday where I encourage everyone (and myself) to be nice, might be my eternal penance for the ways I have used my words the other six days of the week. In any case, the litmus test is the same: Am I using my words to advance myself (so that I win the argument and you lose) or am I using my words to help both of of us win, or to help you win, especially in cases where I don't really need to (as much as I like to).
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		+	4. Those who say, "Our lips are our own—who is our master?" This is potentially the most destructive of all kinds of speech--unrestrained words from those who don't consider (or don't care) about the impact of their words on others. The litmus test doesn't even work here, because people who have gotten to this point generally don't welcome litmus tests. We have an expression for this kind of person--we say he (or she) has "no filter." And some people take that as a badge of honor: "I'm just being honest" or "It's a free country, I can say what I want." While I do believe passionately, as an American, in free speech and I will always defend the right of people to say all sorts of crazy and hateful things, just because you have a right to do something doesn't mean it's wise, or good, or helpful. As an American I am free. But as a Christian, I am not free. I have a master, and it's the God who tells me to love my neighbor as much as I love myself--with my thoughts, my actions, and my words.

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	Psalm 12 says in the instructions at the beginning that it is a "Psalm of David" written to the leader (or the chief musician) to be accompanied by the Sheminith, which is probably an eight-stringed harp. A "Psalm of David" could mean that it was written by the famous King David himself, or by someone else "in the style of" King David. Whoever wrote this psalm, though, was clearly having a bad day. Or a bad year, or a bad decade. There are no flowery, poetic words addressing God, just the simple and heartfelt cry: "Help, O Lord." If you're ever looking for a good way to start a prayer on a bad day, that will do.		Psalm 12 says in the instructions at the beginning that it is a "Psalm of David" written to the leader (or the chief musician) to be accompanied by the Sheminith, which is probably an eight-stringed harp. A "Psalm of David" could mean that it was written by the famous King David himself, or by someone else "in the style of" King David. Whoever wrote this psalm, though, was clearly having a bad day. Or a bad year, or a bad decade. There are no flowery, poetic words addressing God, just the simple and heartfelt cry: "Help, O Lord." If you're ever looking for a good way to start a prayer on a bad day, that will do.
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		+	"Help, O Lord, for there is no longer anyone who is godly; the faithful have disappeared from humankind."
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		+	That part may sound like an exaggeration, but it's a pretty common one. It's also a reminder to us that when we feel like the whole world has gone to hell in a hand-basket, that things couldn't possibly be worse, that things have never been so bad as they are today...that people have felt that way in just about every generation. This Psalm was written at least 3,000 years ago. Remembering that may not improve the situation much, but it may help our perspective some, and at least we know we're not alone.
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		+	Verse two: "They (that is, everyone) utter lies to each other; with flattering lips and a double heart they speak."
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		+	The word translated as "lies" in Hebrew is שָׁוְא (shawv) which literally means "emptiness" or words with no value, no substance. The phrase "double heart" is kind of like our modern expression "two-faced." People who say one thing in front of you, and quite another thing when you aren't around.
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		+	If verses one and two spell out the problem, verses three and four are the heart of the psalmists request to God: "May the Lord cut off all flattering lips, the tongue that makes great boasts, those who say, “With our tongues we will prevail; our lips are our own—who is our master?"
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		+	Basically, that four different kinds of destructive speech would be cut off:
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		+	1. Flattering lips. This is pretty self explanatory. Think of how you feel when someone praises you, compliments you. Good, right? And then how do you feel when you find out later on that none of those words were really meant, that they were only an attempt to gain something from you. This is, on some level, the most innocuous kind of deceitful speech. Sometimes we do this without really thinking about it or realizing what we're doing. You might even flatter someone simply because you want them to like you--where's the harm in that, right? The harm is in the deception: Flattery pretends to say "I love you" but actually means "I love me." The scriptures teach us that true love, true kindness, true generosity is never self-seeking, but rather self-sacrificing. I think the antidote to flattery is not to stop complimenting other people, not to be brutally honest or rude, but resolve to mean (and to believe) your compliments, and then to stand by them in the presence of others. Make your two faces, your two hearts into one, but always choose the kinder one.
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		+	2. The tongue that makes great boasts. If flattery is complimenting another person when you don't mean it, boasting is complimenting yourself when there's no need for it, when it doesn't build up or help the people around you. Here's a litmus test for speaking about yourself: Does what I'm about to say benefit me, primarily, or the people I'm speaking to? I'm not advocating for selling yourself short, or false humility. If you're in a job interview, speaking confidently about what you have done and what you can do is helpful to the person interviewing you. If someone is having a heart attack, saying "I'm a doctor" is not boastful, it's critically helpful. But saying something to the effect of "I'm a pretty big deal" when the purpose is to to make yourself feel good, or superior, or to make someone else feel small--that's the tongue the Psalmist (and pretty much everyone) would rather have cut off.
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		+	3. Those who say, "With our tongues we will prevail." Let me confess: I am so guilty of this one.

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	The flight attendant replies, "Well, they should be. After all, they are complimentary."		The flight attendant replies, "Well, they should be. After all, they are complimentary."

−	Psalm 12 is about flattery, boasting, and other types of deceitful or reckless speech. There's an old saying that most of us grew up with: "Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can never harm me." Of course, the mere existence of that rhyme, the fact that children need to hear and say things like this to comfort and console themselves, hints at the fact that words really do have the power to wound us ~~emotionally~~, to destroy relationships and reputations alike.	+	Psalm 12 is about flattery, boasting, and other types of deceitful or reckless speech. There's an old saying that most of us grew up with: "Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can never harm me." Of course, the mere existence of that rhyme, the fact that children need to hear and say things like this to comfort and console themselves, hints at the fact that words really do have the power to wound us to the core, to destroy relationships and reputations alike.
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		+	Psalm 12 says in the instructions at the beginning that it is a "Psalm of David" written to the leader (or the chief musician) to be accompanied by the Sheminith, which is probably an eight-stringed harp. A "Psalm of David" could mean that it was written by the famous King David himself, or by someone else "in the style of" King David. Whoever wrote this psalm, though, was clearly having a bad day. Or a bad year, or a bad decade. There are no flowery, poetic words addressing God, just the simple and heartfelt cry: "Help, O Lord." If you're ever looking for a good way to start a prayer on a bad day, that will do.

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	The flight attendant replies, "Well, they should be. After all, they are complimentary."		The flight attendant replies, "Well, they should be. After all, they are complimentary."

−	Psalm 12 is about flattery, ~~among~~ other things.	+	Psalm 12 is about flattery, boasting, and other types of deceitful or reckless speech. There's an old saying that most of us grew up with: "Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can never harm me." Of course, the mere existence of that rhyme, the fact that children need to hear and say things like this to comfort and console themselves, hints at the fact that words really do have the power to wound us emotionally, to destroy relationships and reputations alike.

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	At this, the man is quite flattered. He waves down the flight attendant and tells her, "Ma'am these peanuts are really nice!"		At this, the man is quite flattered. He waves down the flight attendant and tells her, "Ma'am these peanuts are really nice!"

−	The flight attendant replies, "Well, they should be. After all~~...~~they are complimentary."	+	The flight attendant replies, "Well, they should be. After all, they are complimentary."