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I was devastated. I was angry. What kind of unsupportive friend says something like that? What kind of friend abandons you in a strange place among strange people? Well, as it turns out, a pretty good one. It didn't take me long to learn fluent French after that, and when I did, I made plenty of friends--many of whom I'm still in touch with today. But at the time, Mari's words were far from comforting, and I judged them pretty harshly. | I was devastated. I was angry. What kind of unsupportive friend says something like that? What kind of friend abandons you in a strange place among strange people? Well, as it turns out, a pretty good one. It didn't take me long to learn fluent French after that, and when I did, I made plenty of friends--many of whom I'm still in touch with today. But at the time, Mari's words were far from comforting, and I judged them pretty harshly. | ||
| − | As I noted last week, we tend to do the same with Job's friends. This week we come to friend number two, Bildad. | + | As I noted last week, we tend to do the same with Job's friends. This week we come to friend number two, Bildad. |
==Bildad: We Are of Yesterday== | ==Bildad: We Are of Yesterday== | ||
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''1Then Bildad the Shuhite responded and said: 2How long will you speak these things, And will the utterances of your mouth be a mighty wind? 3Does God pervert justice, Or does Shaddai pervert what is right? 4If your children sinned against him, Then he has dispatched them because of their transgression. 5If you look to God, And make supplication to Shaddai, 6If you are pure and upright, Surely then he will watch over you, And restore your rightful habitation. 7Though your beginning be small, Your end will be very great.'' | ''1Then Bildad the Shuhite responded and said: 2How long will you speak these things, And will the utterances of your mouth be a mighty wind? 3Does God pervert justice, Or does Shaddai pervert what is right? 4If your children sinned against him, Then he has dispatched them because of their transgression. 5If you look to God, And make supplication to Shaddai, 6If you are pure and upright, Surely then he will watch over you, And restore your rightful habitation. 7Though your beginning be small, Your end will be very great.'' | ||
| − | At first glance, Bildad's reference to the death of Job's children may seem harsh. It seems like he's saying "Your children got what was coming to them." | + | At first glance, Bildad's reference to the death of Job's children may seem harsh. It seems like he's saying "Your children got what was coming to them." But before we judge, let's read more closely, and let's remember that we don't know Job nearly as well as Bildad does. |
| − | ==Job 8:8- | + | As a parent, I am responsible for my children. I'm responsible for their health, their well-being, their education, their happiness, pretty much every aspect of their lives. I take that responsibility seriously. And that sense of responsibility probably won't go away when they become adults and move out on their own. The problem is, sometimes we can take that sense of responsibility too far. When unthinkable tragedy strikes, at the loss of a child, the first person that a parent will blame is himself or herself. I was responsible, and I failed. What could I have done differently? How could I have prevented this? Most often, the answer is, "you couldn't have." But the cycle of guilt and second-guessing sprials out of control, ultimately consuming the life of the parent as well as the child. |
| − | ''8Indeed, inquire of the previous generation; Make a determination about the search of their predecessors. 9For we are yesterday and ignorant; For our days on earth are but a shadow. 10Surely they will teach you, speak to you, And bring forth words from their heart. 11Do reeds grow lofty where there is no marsh? Do rushes thrive without water? 12While yet in their shoot and not picked, They would wither—before any grass. 13So are the paths of all who forget God; Yea, lost is the hope of the miscreant 14Whose confidence is flimsy, Whose trust is a spider's “house.” 15He relies on his “house,” but it will not stand; He grabs it, but it will not hold. 16As for a well-watered (plant), it is before the sun. Its shoot grows out beyond its garden. 17Over a heap its roots are entangled; It (even) looks within stones. 18If one should destroy it from its place But disclaims it—“I did not see you!”— 19Behold, that is the joy of his way; From the dirt others will sprout.'' | + | |
| + | We are told in the very beginning of the story that Job is "blameless and upright." But that doesn't necessarily carry over to his children. In fact, the text hints at just the opposite. We read in Chapter One that "his sons used to go and host banquets at home, each one on his day, and they would send and invite their three sisters to eat and drink with them. When they had completed the banquet days, Job sent for and sanctified them. He arose early in the morning and offered up burnt offerings according to the number of them all, for he said, 'Perhaps my children have sinned and 'blessed' (or cursed) God in their hearts.' Thus Job would do all the time." | ||
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| + | We are not told what all happened at these wild banquet parties, and thus we have no place to judge Job's children. But I suspect Job knew, and I suspect that his friend Bildad knew as well (although, it's worth noting that he doesn't say, "your children sinned." He says, "IF your children sinned"). What's apparent from this passage is that even when his children were alive, Job felt responsible not just for their actions, but even their very thoughts! | ||
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| + | I think what Bildad is trying to communicate to Job in verse 4 of today's passage is that, ultimately, we can only be held responsible for the consequences of our own actions, our own thoughts before God. No matter how hard you work, no matter how hard you try, you cannot "save" other people from their own choices, their own lifestyle. But you can be a positive example. You can, in the words of Bildad, "look to God, make supplication to Shaddai" and work to be "pure and upright" in your own life. | ||
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| + | ''8Indeed, inquire of the previous generation; Make a determination about the search of their predecessors. 9For we are yesterday and ignorant; For our days on earth are but a shadow. 10Surely they will teach you, speak to you, And bring forth words from their heart. | ||
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| + | 11Do reeds grow lofty where there is no marsh? Do rushes thrive without water? 12While yet in their shoot and not picked, They would wither—before any grass. 13So are the paths of all who forget God; Yea, lost is the hope of the miscreant 14Whose confidence is flimsy, Whose trust is a spider's “house.” 15He relies on his “house,” but it will not stand; He grabs it, but it will not hold. 16As for a well-watered (plant), it is before the sun. Its shoot grows out beyond its garden. 17Over a heap its roots are entangled; It (even) looks within stones. 18If one should destroy it from its place But disclaims it—“I did not see you!”— 19Behold, that is the joy of his way; From the dirt others will sprout.'' | ||
==Job 8:20-22== | ==Job 8:20-22== | ||
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Job 2:11-13*
11When the three friends of Job heard of all this misfortune that had come upon him, they came each one from his own place: Eliphaz the Temanite, Bildad the Shuhite, Zophar the Naamathite. They agreed to come together to console him and to comfort him. 12When they lifted up their eyes from afar but could not recognize him, they lifted up their voices and wept. They rent, each one his cloak, and sprinkled dust over their heads towards the heaven. 13They sat down with him on the ground, seven days and seven nights, but no one said a word to him, for they saw that the suffering was very great.
This month we're in the Book of Job, and we're giving Job's friends a closer look, listening to their words, and giving them the benefit of the doubt as true friends and comforters. Since we're also talking about friendship, I have a story to share.
As many of you know, my mother was in the Army, so when I was in the third grade, our family moved overseas to Belgium, where she was stationed. My parents enrolled me in the local Belgian school, which was a French-speaking school. I didn't speak a word of French. It was a scary, lonely, isolated time for me, but for one bright spot: There was another American student from a military family enrolled in the school. Her name was Mari. For about two months, Mari translated for me, and I clung to her words (and her friendship) gratefully. And then one day, out on the playground, Mari came up to me and said, "You're not learning French this way. Not only am I not going to translate for you anymore, I'm not even going to speak to you in English anymore either."
I was devastated. I was angry. What kind of unsupportive friend says something like that? What kind of friend abandons you in a strange place among strange people? Well, as it turns out, a pretty good one. It didn't take me long to learn fluent French after that, and when I did, I made plenty of friends--many of whom I'm still in touch with today. But at the time, Mari's words were far from comforting, and I judged them pretty harshly.
As I noted last week, we tend to do the same with Job's friends. This week we come to friend number two, Bildad.
Bildad: We Are of Yesterday
First, Two Pictures:
- Eeyore and Tigger. An unlikely friendship!
- Job and Bildad. Drawing by Caitlin Foehse of an Illustration found in a 12th Century Greek Bible.
- Same picture, but with color added for emphasis. Note Bildad pointing out to Job the plants growing from the dung heap. Clearly, Bildad is an optimist!
Job 8:1-7
1Then Bildad the Shuhite responded and said: 2How long will you speak these things, And will the utterances of your mouth be a mighty wind? 3Does God pervert justice, Or does Shaddai pervert what is right? 4If your children sinned against him, Then he has dispatched them because of their transgression. 5If you look to God, And make supplication to Shaddai, 6If you are pure and upright, Surely then he will watch over you, And restore your rightful habitation. 7Though your beginning be small, Your end will be very great.
At first glance, Bildad's reference to the death of Job's children may seem harsh. It seems like he's saying "Your children got what was coming to them." But before we judge, let's read more closely, and let's remember that we don't know Job nearly as well as Bildad does.
As a parent, I am responsible for my children. I'm responsible for their health, their well-being, their education, their happiness, pretty much every aspect of their lives. I take that responsibility seriously. And that sense of responsibility probably won't go away when they become adults and move out on their own. The problem is, sometimes we can take that sense of responsibility too far. When unthinkable tragedy strikes, at the loss of a child, the first person that a parent will blame is himself or herself. I was responsible, and I failed. What could I have done differently? How could I have prevented this? Most often, the answer is, "you couldn't have." But the cycle of guilt and second-guessing sprials out of control, ultimately consuming the life of the parent as well as the child.
We are told in the very beginning of the story that Job is "blameless and upright." But that doesn't necessarily carry over to his children. In fact, the text hints at just the opposite. We read in Chapter One that "his sons used to go and host banquets at home, each one on his day, and they would send and invite their three sisters to eat and drink with them. When they had completed the banquet days, Job sent for and sanctified them. He arose early in the morning and offered up burnt offerings according to the number of them all, for he said, 'Perhaps my children have sinned and 'blessed' (or cursed) God in their hearts.' Thus Job would do all the time."
We are not told what all happened at these wild banquet parties, and thus we have no place to judge Job's children. But I suspect Job knew, and I suspect that his friend Bildad knew as well (although, it's worth noting that he doesn't say, "your children sinned." He says, "IF your children sinned"). What's apparent from this passage is that even when his children were alive, Job felt responsible not just for their actions, but even their very thoughts!
I think what Bildad is trying to communicate to Job in verse 4 of today's passage is that, ultimately, we can only be held responsible for the consequences of our own actions, our own thoughts before God. No matter how hard you work, no matter how hard you try, you cannot "save" other people from their own choices, their own lifestyle. But you can be a positive example. You can, in the words of Bildad, "look to God, make supplication to Shaddai" and work to be "pure and upright" in your own life.
Job 8:8-10
8Indeed, inquire of the previous generation; Make a determination about the search of their predecessors. 9For we are yesterday and ignorant; For our days on earth are but a shadow. 10Surely they will teach you, speak to you, And bring forth words from their heart.
==Job 8:11-19 11Do reeds grow lofty where there is no marsh? Do rushes thrive without water? 12While yet in their shoot and not picked, They would wither—before any grass. 13So are the paths of all who forget God; Yea, lost is the hope of the miscreant 14Whose confidence is flimsy, Whose trust is a spider's “house.” 15He relies on his “house,” but it will not stand; He grabs it, but it will not hold. 16As for a well-watered (plant), it is before the sun. Its shoot grows out beyond its garden. 17Over a heap its roots are entangled; It (even) looks within stones. 18If one should destroy it from its place But disclaims it—“I did not see you!”— 19Behold, that is the joy of his way; From the dirt others will sprout.
Job 8:20-22
20Behold, God does not despise the blameless, He does not take the hand of evil-doers. 21Yet will he fill your mouth with laughter, Your lips with a triumphal shout. 22Your enemies will be clothed with shame; The tent of the wicked will be no more.
Eliphaz reminds Job that God is supreme, God is in control. Bildad reminds Job that God is good. Bildad believes in happy endings.
I am confident that, in the end, common sense and justice will prevail. I'm an optimist, brought up on the belief that if you wait to the end of the story, you get to see the good people live happily ever after. -Cat Stevens
- All scripture translations from C.L. Seow's commentary on Job (Eerdman's 2013).
